Sunday, June 13, 2010

Are You A Starter Chick?

A Starter Chick is the first one.  The first one like you that the guy your sitting across from has ever had. 

What's wrong with that? 

Nothing... if you want to teach this man how to treat you, how to talk to you, basically everything you know because he's never had a woman that was worth the effort. He doesn't have the blueprint for the starter chick.  He has no clue what makes them tick.

Eventually, you'll get tired of playing teacher and student and let him go and he'll want you back...at least until he finds someone new.  The next girl isn't the starter chick though.  At this point he knows what to do.  And guess who taught him... YOU!

Women who are starter chicks tend to fall into a pattern:

The "Starter Chick Cycle" is a hard one to break.  In order to stop being a starter chick you have to picture the man you are dating "as is", damaged goods and all,  for what and who he is-- not for what you want him to be in the future.  If you are not satisfied with who he is, don't try to change him, stop seeing him, because he is not going to change for you.


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