Monday, June 21, 2010

The First Conversation

The first conversation you have after meeting someone is one of the most important conversations...ever.   If the conversation flows the way it is supposed to, you'll have a better sense of who this person is and what you may have in common.

But,  have you ever had the awkward silence? I'm talking you can hear crickets in the background and the other person breathing.

If this has happened, one or both of you need to brush up on your conversation skills. 

You know absolutely nothing about each other and you can't think of anything to say?

After a few minutes, the person on the other end of the line will start to loosen up and get comfortable with you.  They feel more at ease answering your questions. This is when the "red flags" come up because they've let down their guard a little.

Ask about their interests or anything else you want to know.  I usually stay away from conversations about past relationships because I feel like whether they were good or bad you should learn from them and move ON TO THE NEXT ONE...♥♥♥


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