Friday, June 25, 2010

Making a List... Checking it Twice

There comes a time in every relationship when the honeymoon stage is over.

The flaws that were once not so obvious are tapping you on the shoulder.  Things that were once cute or quirky are now annoying as all hell.

You've become unsure of whether or not you should stay with this person.  This insecurity can put a damper on any relationship.

With any problem, there is a simple solution.  Looking at the situation methodically, you can evaluate if you should stay or go.

What do I mean?

You can weigh the good things against the bad...
Make a PRO or CONS list...literally write it down.

If the PRO list is longer than the CONS than you two could probably work it out. 

If the CONS list needs two more attachments of "continued onto the next page," you may want to go ahead and let this one go.

When it actually comes down to it, if something feels wrong or your overly irritated with this person ALL the time, then the relationship has probably run its course...it happens. 

You shouldn't stay in a relationship that is only being held together by a need or a fear of being alone; not healthy, AT ALL.

Follow your heart, learn from the relationship and move on.

1 comment:

Hillerie Camille said...

You are so right. Going backwards is not an option. You Can Not go forward when you're looking behind. The best revenge is to always be on your A game when you run into a past chapter. Keep it moving.

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